I believe that everyone of us has a destination that God chose for us.
But I also believe that we have to make the choice to either, give our lives over to God and live the life He laid out for us, our do like Elvis Presley said, He did it his way, and how did that turn out?
Due to a certain belief, which is harassey, they teach that we are predestined for hell or heaven.
God wishes that all would come to Him in repentance, but unfortunately, the Bible says that few will be that find the way.
Choose what you will, but in the end, don't blame God for the choice you make.
Remember John 3:16; "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life." Whoever, "Believes in Him (Jesus)" will have ever lasting life.